Vow Renewal Party Ideas

A vow renewal ceremony allows married couples to recite vows to each other as a symbol of commitment after overcoming a major obstacle together or to commemorate a milestone anniversary. Consider these vow renewal party ideas for planning your (second) big day.

Create a new experience

Choose a venue with significant value (like the place you met) or have an event that differs from your original wedding. For instance, you can have an intimate affair of close family members and friends if you had a large wedding. If you eloped at first, a vow renewal can be a bigger soiree that includes all the people that didn’t attend your nuptials. No matter what you decide, The Iroquois Club can accommodate a quaint gathering of 15 guests or a more significant occasion of up to 200 guests.

Spice up the party with a theme

Instead of a traditional gathering, consider incorporating a fun theme! If celebrating a milestone anniversary, you can transport guests back in time with elements from the year you were married. You can also be inspired by a favorite movie or destination for your second round of nuptials. This can include a themed dress code, decorations, music and treats for everyone to enjoy!

Choose someone special to officiate

Since you are already married, who you choose to officiate your vow renewal is completely up to you! You may choose a person with sentimental value to make this day even more special. This can include a friend, a historical figure impersonator, someone the couple looks up to, children or grandchildren.


Write new vows

There’s a pretty good chance that a lot of things have changed since reciting your original vows. Writing new vows can reflect on what you’ve learned as a couple so far and allows you to make new promises based on your experiences. Especially if you didn’t write your vows the first time you said “I do,” this provides the opportunity to add a personal touch to your ceremony. Frame this reflection of your new values to serve as a reminder of your love and commitment to one another.


Use photos to show years of love

As a vow renewal is a time to showcase love, why not share images of you and your partner over the course of your marriage? You can create a love timeline display that documents your important moments over the years. Additionally, a rustic photo display will show your guests the story of you and your partner’s life together.