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Jewish Wedding Customs and Rituals

Jewish weddings are steeped in rich traditions and customs that have been passed down through generations. These rituals not only celebrate the union of two individuals but also serve as a connection to their Jewish heritage and values.

Ketubah Signing:

Before the wedding ceremony, the couple participates in the ketubah signing. The ketubah is a marriage contract that outlines the couple's responsibilities and commitments to each other. It is signed by the couple, witnesses, and officiating rabbi, and often becomes a cherished piece of artwork to display in their home.

Bedeken:

The bedeken is a touching moment where the groom veils the bride, symbolizing his commitment to cherish and protect her. It harkens back to the biblical story of Jacob and his bride, Leah, where the groom was deceived about the bride's identity. Others tie the meaning to a groom’s love for his bride regardless of appearances.

Chuppah:

The chuppah, a canopy under which the couple stands during the ceremony, represents the new home they are creating together. It is often open on all sides to symbolize the couple's hospitality and openness to their family and friends.

Seven Blessings:

During the ceremony, seven blessings (Sheva Brachot) are recited, symbolizing joy, love, and the establishment of a harmonious and fruitful marriage. The blessings are often led by a rabbi or close family members and are followed by the breaking of the glass, representing the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.

Hora:

The Hora is a lively and energetic dance that involves the couple and their guests. The couple is lifted on chairs while everyone dances in a circle, celebrating the joyous occasion. It signifies unity, community, and the importance of coming together in celebration.

Yichud:

After the ceremony, the couple retreats to a private room for a few moments of seclusion called Yichud. It allows them to reflect on their union and share an intimate moment before rejoining the celebration.