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Wedding Customs from Around the World

Weddings are a universal celebration of love and unity, but the customs and traditions associated with these joyous occasions vary greatly across cultures. From vibrant ceremonies to symbolic rituals, wedding customs offer a glimpse into the ways different cultures honor the bond of marriage.

India:

In Indian weddings, rituals play a central role. One of the most vibrant ceremonies is the Mehndi, where intricate henna designs are applied to the bride's hands and feet. The most important rite in Hindu weddings is the Saptapadi, where the couple takes seven steps together, symbolizing their vows and commitment to each other.

China:

In Chinese weddings, the color red takes center stage as a symbol of luck and prosperity. The bride traditionally wears a red wedding dress called a qipao, while guests gift red envelopes containing money. The Tea Ceremony is another essential custom, where the couple serves tea to their parents as a sign of respect and gratitude.

Mexico:

Mexican weddings are known for their lively celebrations. The La Marcha, or wedding march, is a spirited parade that takes the couple and their guests through the streets, accompanied by music and dancing. A traditional element is the Lasso Ceremony, where a floral rope is placed around the couple's shoulders in the shape of a figure-eight, symbolizing their unity.

Sweden:

In Sweden, weddings often include a playful kissing custom. Whenever the bride leaves the room during the wedding reception, guests get up to kiss the groom. Likewise, when the groom exits the reception (even for a quick bathroom break!), guests line up to kiss the bride!

Nigeria:

Nigerian weddings are characterized by vibrant colors, music, and cultural diversity. The Yoruba tribe, for example, has the Alaga Ijoko (the sitting MC) for the bride’s family and the Alaga Iduro (the standing MC) for the groom’s family. Another custom is the spraying of money, where guests shower the couple with cash as a gesture of good luck and prosperity.

Scotland:

Scottish weddings often feature the ceremonial Quaich, a shallow drinking cup. The bride and groom sip from the Quaich, symbolizing their shared commitment and the blending of their families. The couple may also participate in the Ceilidh, a traditional Scottish dance that brings everyone together in joyous celebration.

Japan:

Japanese weddings are steeped in symbolism and tradition. The drinking of sake, known as the San-san-kudo, represents the union of the couple and their families. San San Kudo began in the 1600s and is one of the oldest ceremonial wedding traditions. In Japan, the bride often wears a white kimono, symbolizing purity, and may later change into a vibrant red kimono for the reception.